said something stupid

Yesterday morning I said something stupid to my husband.  Something I apologized for before he left for work.  Yet I realize  though an apology is accepted, the thought has been vocalized.  Feelings have been exposed. Grace, she comes with a heavy load Memories, they can’t be erased Like a pill I swallow, he makes me … More said something stupid

written on a Sunday

Sundays today are very different than the Sundays of the past.  When your husband is a pastor, as mine was for quite a few years of our marriage, Sundays are shared days.  It’s an understood.  For a pastor, Sunday is the biggest day of the week.  For church members, Sunday is  the day when they … More written on a Sunday

the list

bucket list goals things to do The names sound trite and I don’t like them.  The best label I’ve come up with so far is “life list”.  Or maybe I should call it “the growing old together without getting bored list.” Let me explain.  After a fairly intense conversation with my husband, I’ve come to … More the list

workplace restroom

It’s Throwback Thursday.  So I decided to post an entry I wrote way back when and never published.  I think it’s somewhat funny, but hey, I live the situation five days a week. I give you my ode to the workplace restroom: Before accepting my current job, I did not ask about the office restroom … More workplace restroom

the long haul

Last month my mom and dad in-law celebrated fifty years of marriage.  That’s an accomplishment. A little over a year from now, in December 2014, my mom and dad will reach fifty years.  Again, a pretty big thing. Lately I’ve noticed, via Facebook, couples I knew years ago, perhaps in high school or college.  Some … More the long haul