{disappointment}

the failure of hopes or expectations to manifest The hardest part about parenting is the disappointment.  One of the hardest parts of wifing [I think I just created a new word] is dealing with the disappointments.  I’m not writing of the disappointment caused by our children or spouse, but walking through the disappointment they face, … More {disappointment}

{a place only}

A Place Only You Can Go [click on the title to hear the song] Pain is alive in a broken heartThe past never does go awayWe were born to love And we’re born to payThe price for our mistakes Grace, she comes with a heavy loadMemories, they can’t be erasedLike a pill I swallow, he … More {a place only}

{in.conclusion}

I can begin.  Right now.  Today.  I left Christ Church Cathedral this morning, ready to start anew.That’s what I received from my.lenten.experiment.  The hope of a new beginning.  An opportunity.For years and years, I’ve thought about Easter in terms of salvation.  The replacement of the sacrificial system.  That Jesus made a way.  Which is, I … More {in.conclusion}

[mom.of.a.boy]

I am now the mother of a boy who is taller than me and stronger than me.  I can’t pick him up and carry him anymore.  He’s 17 and almost old enough to register with Selective Service.  And though he’s: A normal boy.A brilliant boy.A college-bound boy.A sweet boy. He’s not:A black boy. The above … More [mom.of.a.boy]

[table.talk]

When you have teenagers [which we do], you can’t bank on how the dinner conversation will go.  Often it’s something like this… parent: How was your day? kid #1:  Fine. parent:  [to kid #2]  How was your day? kid #2:  Fine. parent:  What’d ya do at school today? kid # 1 and #2:  [in unison]  … More [table.talk]

{introversion}

It is 5:59 a.m.  I’ve been awake since, I think 3:37 a.m.  Daughter Allie left this morning for Washington D.C.  It’s the 8th grade trip, and she had to report to school at 4:30 a.m.  The buses were to leave at 5 a.m., but alas, one child, or perhaps his parent, or perhaps both, was … More {introversion}

do [nothing]

I am a do-er.  I have been told to [do] something for years.  At least that’s what I heard; perhaps it was only my interpretation.  Yet, it’s how it seemed. Do ______ if you want to go to college.   Do ______ if you don’t want to get into trouble.  Do ______ if you want a … More do [nothing]

{redemption}

A little out of the norm.  That’s how my day started.  Instead of leaving at 7:45 and driving my daughter to school, I left at 8:30 with my son.  He had to report for an all day rehearsal at a different high school than the one he attends.  Which worked out well for me, as … More {redemption}