the OC

My family hails from the OC.  No, not Orange County, California.  Our OC is Osage County.  As in Oklahoma.  My maternal grandma left OC as a senior citizen, moving to a joining county.  But before that, she’d lived her entire life in OC.  Her parents lived there I don’t know how many years.  My mother … More the OC

forward looking

I am currently part of a workshop designed for people in my situation.  That being, they are divorced, in the midst of divorce or experiencing a marital separation.  So far, there have been three sessions, and I’m gleaning helpful information and encouragement.  During this past week’s session, it was stressed we should have things in … More forward looking

magazine people

My daughter and I are magazine people.  By that I mean what probably seems obvious.  We like magazines.  She actually subscribes to Vogue, Elle and Harper’s Bazaar.  I check House Beautiful, Martha Stewart Living and an occasional Vegetarian Times out at the library.  Today I even picked up an American Craft. It’s not that we … More magazine people

spring forward

I didn’t realize it would soon be time to change the clocks until Thursday.  I set my alarm last night, completely aware that I would lose an hour of sleep.  I did however, forget to switch my phone alert from silent.  The majority of the time, I awake before my alarm goes off.  This morning … More spring forward

release

Ash Wednesday.  First day of Lent. Reminder that we’re dying.  I am ashes and dust. But Resurrection Day is coming. Meantime, though.  What to do in between? Give something up?  Sacrifice?  Confess? The word I hear….. [release]. And I answer back, [I already have]. So much.  People and things.  Dreams.  Aspirations.  Even hopes. But it … More release