time and theories of

I’ve come to realize how easily the pendulum of outlook can swing.  A day can be passing quite fine.  Items checked off a list.  Accomplishments.  Meetings.  Something created.  Sent.  Hours with people I care for.  Sites seen. Then, often abruptly, the mood can change.  Sometimes circumstance.  Sometimes an unexpected reminder that all is not as … More time and theories of

happiness as a goal

Happiness as a goal is a recipe for disaster.  ~ Barry Schwartz I think the above quote says it all.  If you’re only looking to make yourself happy, you’re in for a big fall.  Ah, I made a rhyme. Happiness as a goal is a recipe for disaster. Simple, yet much to consider.   happiness.as.a.goal.is.a.recipe.for.disaster … More happiness as a goal

light

A friend read Psalm 27 to me.  God is my light….. Jesus said it.  I am the light of the world. Isaiah prophesied those who walk in darkness have seen a great light. Yesterday was dark, dreary, chilly, raining.  My mood lagged.  My thoughts fearful and low. Today the sun shines. Bright. And I’m more … More light

alright to be sad

My daughter and I cherish our Thursday nights and Saturday mornings at Fitness Boxing.  Our local YMCA offers a class, taught by a cool middle aged guy named James.  We’ve developed a fondness for James.  Perhaps partly because of our own personal James [my son/her brother].  Alas, James the boxing instructor could not teach our … More alright to be sad

ridiculous

There are days when nothing makes sense. Days like today.  It’s Spring.  Officially.  It’s also snowing and blowing and when I look out the window I can’t see across the street. I can look forward.  A few days ahead.  My son’s recital.  It will be good.  Proud moments.  Smiles. Applause. Tomorrow.  An opportunity to hear … More ridiculous

the OC

My family hails from the OC.  No, not Orange County, California.  Our OC is Osage County.  As in Oklahoma.  My maternal grandma left OC as a senior citizen, moving to a joining county.  But before that, she’d lived her entire life in OC.  Her parents lived there I don’t know how many years.  My mother … More the OC

forward looking

I am currently part of a workshop designed for people in my situation.  That being, they are divorced, in the midst of divorce or experiencing a marital separation.  So far, there have been three sessions, and I’m gleaning helpful information and encouragement.  During this past week’s session, it was stressed we should have things in … More forward looking